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                                                            The following Q & A is a brief summary of           discussions by the Virginia Conference UM Men Cabinet during the           2016-2017 period regarding future improvements to the Annual           Spiritual Advance and all things that lead to making           disciples. The findings from our extended discussion period           helped us formulate a plan for the 2018 Spiritual Advance. 
                                                              
                                                            Your Brothers in           Christ, 
                                                            Virginia           UM Men Cabinet Members 
                                                             
                                                             
                                                             
                                                            
                                                              
                                                            Where and when will the 2018 Spiritual Advance be held? 
                                                            Baylake United Methodist Church, 4300 Shore Drive,           Virginia Beach, VA, Friday, October 26, 6 pm through Saturday, October 27, 9 pm.  Sunday worship           service at Baylake UMC is optional. 
                                                            I thought we wanted a location nearer to the state's           centrally located population centers, so why are we moving our annual           spiritual weekend to Virginia Beach?     
                                                            After more than 30 years at the Virginia UM Assembly           Center (VUMAC) in Blackstone and watching attendance steadily decline           we agreed to follow the successful model of the UM Men in South           Carolina that regularly experiences over 1,200 attending their           spiritual weekend in Myrtle Beach each February.  
                                                            An excellent case study is the South Carolina Conference           UM Men who have learned a beach location provides a vacation           atmosphere that encourages men and their families to attend. And           according to our own survey results, Virginia's UM Men prefer a           Spiritual Retreat, so beginning this year we will be hosting the           event in September (October next year!) at a beach location,           which coincidentally is when hotel rates are lower.  
                                                            Has our purpose changed?                                                                                                           
                                                            No. Our goal remains to grow disciples and           help make new ones, and will continue having an annual theme,           complimented by workshops targeted for particular needs, but           our end game of making disciples is what we're all           about. The UM Men vision for the Virginia Conference is: Men           building God's Kingdom led by the Holy Spirit through Christian           Fellowship. 
                                                            Why only a two-day event? 
                                                            Most men are either not willing or able to commit for an           entire weekend, what with their busy lives and family obligations.           But for those that want to stay overnight Saturday to attend Sunday           worship, Baylake UMC will welcome us with open arms. 
                                                            Who are the featured speakers?  Why more than           one?   
                                                            James Swanson, resident bishop of the Mississippi Conference and           president of the Board of Directors of the General Commission on           United Methodist Men. Two other well-known speakers will be           announced. 
                                                            Participants have come to expect distinguished leaders,           theologians, and authors coming to speak on subjects important to           them. Men are looking for the tools necessary to succeed in           making disciples, bringing in younger generations, and forming an           effective discipleship team with our pastors and church leaders. 
                                                            Can I bring my wife? 
                                                            Yes! Spouses are welcome to attend the           sessions. There will be workshops aimed expressly to men, but           the plenary sessions will be open to everyone in attendance.           Following each speaker there will be a separate small group for men           and women to dig deeper into the spiritual lessons shared by our           various speakers. 
                                                            Where will we be staying? 
                                                            We           have a block of rooms with special group rates reserved at the           Virginia Beach Resort Hotel and Conference Center on Shore Drive           overlooking the Chesapeake Bay. 
                                                            What about music?  
                                                            We will have a mix of sing-a-long favorite hymns, praise           music and local choirs between speakers. No concert - just a few           songs - then on to our next speaker. 
                                                            Where do we eat?                                                                                                                                                      You are on your own for meals           with plenty of break time set-aside for that purpose. A list of           nearby restaurants will be provided. 
                                                            What makes you think this approach will improve           attendance?  
                                                            The South Carolina Conference has been following and           tweaking this model for five years. Starting out with just over 200           attenders, they now have over 1,200 spirit-filled men with their           families alongside in February each year. Their focus remains           discipleship, but they have always included special workshops of           interest to millennials and Pastors. 
                                                            Were SEJ and VA Conference discussions focused only on           the Spiritual Advance?  
                                                            Although men's participation at the local fellowship and           district levels have been, and remain, very much a part of all           discussions; our focus has been primarily on           conducting a successful Spiritual Advance. Similar to the Virginia           Conference, most all SEJ conferences are experiencing a decline in           their annual event.  
                                                            A focus on Younger Men's Ministry that will           embrace influencing men to serve, combating domestic violence, sexual           discrimination, leadership training and mentoring remain significant           areas of discussion from local men's fellowships all the way up to           the General Commission on United Methodist Men. 
                                                            More details on the 2018 Spiritual Advance           coming soon! 
                                                            What's on deck for 2019? 
                                                            We plan to be back at Baylake UMC on Friday and           Saturday, September 28 and 29, 2019, unless we exceed their seating           capacity of about 350. Virginia's resident bishop, Sharma Lewis           will be the keynote speaker. Plan ahead to join us! 
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